Strange Bedfellows
Book: Strange Bedfellows - Adventures in the Science, History, and Surprising Secrets of STDs
Author: Ina Park
Year: 2021
Ina Park brilliantly brings the underbelly of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) to light, effectively presenting it to the masses. Through case narratives and clinical experiences, Park’s knowledge and humour around the subject are contagious. Not only discussing the history and current stigma surrounding STIs, she also offers clear and practical approaches to prevention and treatment for both those affected by STIs and the general public. Covering everything from the reason genital herpes is one of the most stigmatized STIs to the complex sexual webs people engage in, Park blends cellular, individual, and community level descriptions into an approachable public health narrative.
Coming out of the gate swinging, chapter one begins with the stigma and scandal surrounding genital herpes. The popular reality television show “The Bachelor” is discussed at length to show how society continues to perceive this relatively harmless STI as a social pariah. Park writes, “Genital herpes (HSV-2) is the most common reason that potential contestants are rejected from the show. When the production team becomes aware of the test results, the showrunner’s assistant breaks the news to the contestant that they can’t participate, accompanied by a vague statement along the lines of “You should call your doctor’” (pg. 27). Ina follows this shocking insider information up by suggesting that if it is truly a “reality” television show, the bachelor should be able to determine whether or not they want to date someone who has HSV-2, opening up an honest dialogue.
Sex is everywhere. Yet opening up about sexual health to our partners, health professionals, and friends is a topic that most often feels uncomfortable discussing. We are often quick to pass judgement concerning the sexual practices of others but have little knowledge of what’s happening in our own beds (couches, kitchen tables, whatever your preference). Ina Park humorously brings to light the unnecessary shame that often surrounds testing and contracting STIs, opening up a platform for a much-needed broader discussion.
