Book: Strange Bedfellows - Adventures in the Science, History, and Surprising Secrets of STDs

Author: Ina Park

Year: 2021

Coming out of the gate swinging, chapter one begins with the stigma and scandal surrounding genital herpes. The popular reality television show “The Bachelor” is discussed at length to show how society continues to perceive this relatively harmless STI as a social pariah. Park writes, “Genital herpes (HSV-2) is the most common reason that potential contestants are rejected from the show. When the production team becomes aware of the test results, the showrunner’s assistant breaks the news to the contestant that they can’t participate, accompanied by a vague statement along the lines of “You should call your doctor’” (pg. 27). Ina follows this shocking insider information up by suggesting that if it is truly a “reality” television show, the bachelor should be able to determine whether or not they want to date someone who has HSV-2, opening up an honest dialogue. 

Sex is everywhere. Yet opening up about sexual health to our partners, health professionals, and friends is a topic that most often feels uncomfortable discussing. We are often quick to pass judgement concerning the sexual practices of others but have little knowledge of what’s happening in our own beds (couches, kitchen tables, whatever your preference). Ina Park humorously brings to light the unnecessary shame that often surrounds testing and contracting STIs, opening up a platform for a much-needed broader discussion.